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Wednesday, April 25, 2007

Odd behaviour

Noticed that Randson is quite different these days, he has changed (more & more mischievous, asking mum to feed him instead of eating on his own, prefers the days he is in childcare than in P1).

Spoke to his LSP teacher today as we didn't send him to the reading class yesterday assuming that there is no CCA & remedial this week. She told me that Randson is odd these days, he would roll up his jotter book into a megaphone & shouted in the class instead of paying attention. The teacher also said that he is not the worst student in the class & he is able to read most of the words by using phonics.

This reminded me of the day he told me that he is lousy & stupid, most probably the 2 elder brothers have scolded him that. They always feel that we pampered/favoured Randson more than them. Hiaz, aren't we treating them equally? Why are they feeling there is a different in treatment?

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Not to mention yr kids, even for me (a grown up adult) I still feel my mother favored one of us more than another. I guess that’s the natural feeling when you have more than a sibling. I used to squabble with my sisters and brother, calling them all sorts of names too. However, as we grow up, we get better and closer too. Thinking back, I find those past so memorable and amused. So dun worry, this is just a growing up phrase.

Anonymous said...

Not to mention yr kids, even for me (a grown up adult) I still feel my mother favored one of us more than another. I guess that’s the natural feeling when you have more than a sibling. I used to squabble with my sisters and brother, calling them all sorts of names too. However, as we grow up, we get better and closer too. Thinking back, I find those past so memorable and amused. So dun worry, this is just a growing up phrase.

Chin Family of 6 said...

Tks for your encouragement.

Ya, I think so. Everyone wanted the best of everything but I think no matter how hard we try to be fair, it is always unfair in the eyes of the other kids.

Hopefully by trying to encourage Randson & talking to the other 2 boys, things will improve.